Last Tuesday, I watched a woman in session discover something that stopped me mid-cue. We were moving through a simple footwork series—heels together, toes apart, press out, pull in—when suddenly her whole face changed. The tension in her shoulders melted. Her breathing deepened. For the first time in the forty minutes I'd been teaching her, she looked... peaceful.
"My brain finally shut up," she told me afterward, almost surprised by her own words.
If you've ever found yourself mentally composing grocery lists during savasana, or felt like meditation was designed for people whose minds don't ping-pong between seventeen different thoughts per minute, you're not imagining things. And you're definitely not broken.
The Thing About ADHD That No One Really Talks About
We're seeing more women diagnosed with ADHD in their thirties and forties than ever before—women who spent decades thinking they were just "scattered" or "too intense" or "bad at finishing things." But here's what's interesting: even without a formal diagnosis, so many of us live with what feels like ADHD brain.
You know the feeling. The mental tab overflow. Starting five projects and finishing none. Walking into rooms and forgetting why you're there. Racing thoughts that feel impossible to slow down.
Traditional advice usually involves some variation of "just focus harder" or "try meditation." But what if the answer isn't about forcing your brain to be quiet? What if it's about giving it something better to do?
Why Your Restless Brain Might Actually Love Pilates
It's the best kind of multitasking. ADHD brains often crave novelty but get
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